“I got pregnant in SS3 and my church banned me from singing in choir” – Singer, Waje unveils

Ace Nigerian singer, Aituaje Iruobe better known as Waje has unveiled how her Church restricted her from singing in choir after she got pregnant in SS3.

The popular singer revealed this in an ongoing Instagram Live chat with gospel rapper, Bouqui,

Narrating her pregnancy ordeal, she noted that the outcome of that pregnancy is her 21-year-old daughter, Emerald Iruobe.

Waje went down memory lane about her ”relationship” with the dad of her daughter.

As revealed by her, she adored and loved him at the time and felt it was the only way she could express her love.

In her words;

“I got into a relationship in SS3 and the relationship went from ‘puppy love’ to sexual. At that time, I felt I loved him and that (sex) was the only way I could express my love. At that time, I saw a fine boy who liked me, though we quarreled on several occasions. I didn’t understand the responsibility that came with making decisions like that.

I got pregnant and I remembered one afternoon, I was in the bathroom when someone came to my house and told me my pastor wanted to see me. I knew that day, there were two things that would happen ? either I died or I died. Everything in me got drained.

Anyway, I went to see the pastor. He was in a conference room with other pastors and he said to me, ‘If you lie, you will die, because she didn’t go back to sleep.”

He asked me, ‘Are you pregnant?’ and I said, ‘Yes’. He was so disappointed. He told me he wanted to see me in church every Wednesday and Sunday but I would no longer sing in the choir.”

Waje also stated that her mother was not aware of her pregnancy until she was five months gone.

Speaking further, she added… “I wrote the WASSCE while pregnant and nobody knew, not even my mother. I told her about my pregnancy after five months.

After one morning devotion, I told her I had something to tell her. I told her I was pregnant and wasn’t planning on aborting it.


At that point, she already knew who was responsible because he used to come to our house. After telling her, she told me to go back to bed. However, I knew something in her broke because she didn’t go back to sleep.”